Making A List :
We made a list of all people we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.
We make a list of people to make amends to, so that, we can move on in life. We will stay stuck until we clean up the past!
Were you a scapegoat, banished carrying the emotional upheaval of the whole family? YOU WERE ONLY RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR FEELINGS, NOT THEIRS-did you know?? You cannot cause others to feel! Others’ feelings consider everything they have lived and often have little to do with the actual happening at hand. DON’T TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANOTHER’S’ FEELINGS! Take responsibility for your ACTIONS alone, the rest is really not yours to work on!
AMENDING THE WRECKAGE OF THE PAST – Watch Video – Scott Duncan
Am I abandoned by loved ones because of passed behaviours? Are these people turning me into a SCAPEGOAT by heaping all their BURDENS on me and SENDING ME AWAY CARRYING THEM?
Focus is on making the list only at this point. Consider NOT, on how to do it, or where to start, just make it !!
Every Month we have a particular Step for that entire month, And this month we are on Step 8. If you are interested in joining us in one of our meetings we would love to have you. For a meeting nearby you and for the location and times please Click Here For Calendar.
A Thought for the Day : Forgiven to forgive